For a long time I thought my ex was just a moron
The whole legal process definitely exacerbates the process of seeing the person who was your best friend and life partner as a witless malicious tool.
I understand why she never maintained a job or got hired by friends. One shortterm employer told me "your ex-wife is ill."
My brother is bipolar and hospitalized. Two people who have lost the ability to give. Two people who cannot say thanks. My brother said "I love you" to me from his institution recently. That's once more than I ever heard it from my ex. She hates herself more than Glenn does, is how therapists describe this behavior, and yes, that seems valid.
I wish my ex bad tidings. Only fair given her life skills. Day in and day out, if there are two choices, my ex goes for the stupid hurtful unresponsive and childish one. Never the one that makes her life better.
Pam Joe Doron. Can any of you help? I'm dealing with a petulant 5 year old. The kid you avoided at the playground. The nasty one. Now I'm stuck with her, having mostly kept her from overtly hurting others for 30 years. I know she won't find anyone else willing to put up with her animus, and she can't care for herself. That's horrifying. Who will say the Kaddish for me indeed!
Look in the mirror and see what shattered means.
I understand why she never maintained a job or got hired by friends. One shortterm employer told me "your ex-wife is ill."
My brother is bipolar and hospitalized. Two people who have lost the ability to give. Two people who cannot say thanks. My brother said "I love you" to me from his institution recently. That's once more than I ever heard it from my ex. She hates herself more than Glenn does, is how therapists describe this behavior, and yes, that seems valid.
I wish my ex bad tidings. Only fair given her life skills. Day in and day out, if there are two choices, my ex goes for the stupid hurtful unresponsive and childish one. Never the one that makes her life better.
Pam Joe Doron. Can any of you help? I'm dealing with a petulant 5 year old. The kid you avoided at the playground. The nasty one. Now I'm stuck with her, having mostly kept her from overtly hurting others for 30 years. I know she won't find anyone else willing to put up with her animus, and she can't care for herself. That's horrifying. Who will say the Kaddish for me indeed!
Look in the mirror and see what shattered means.
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