My new girlfriend.
I have a new girlfriend with a big heart. A big smile. A big and welcoming lap to rest my head on. Big hands to jointly haul the things that should be hauled and lift together what demands to be lifted. My own life became smaller recently, as it eventually does for most of us--sooner or later. For all who grieve. Small like a 50 mg tablet of Zoloft. Small like false pageantry. Small like the masked men with guns in our communities. Small like our collective understanding of justice. My girlfriend breathes with me. In those moments we share the dimensions and cadence of connection. Joint exhales so big only peace and the sublime rhythm of beauty remain. You know you're safe in the most treacherous terrain when following her pristine perfect ski tracks in the springtime snow. I become emboldened when I follow, and strong when on parallel paths. What a wonderful new girlfriend! What a glorious woman. ---Valentine's Day 2026