Why do my ex-wife’s chirpy messages to service providers piss me off so much?
1. She's never available unless there's an opportunity to perform in front of a third party.
2. Her offers to help show that she's unaware of how badly she's managed her part of our divorce, and of course every material transaction in the rest of her life.
3. Chirpy cheerful messages don't work for me when I have difficult, painful needs that are always ignored.
4. For the record, I know my ex to know that she never shows up for one on one conversations. She doesn't know how. She can only role play as part of scripted, transactional interactions. Often people seem to believe she's competent in unscripted situations. She's not. She falls apart and can barely speak.
2. Her offers to help show that she's unaware of how badly she's managed her part of our divorce, and of course every material transaction in the rest of her life.
3. Chirpy cheerful messages don't work for me when I have difficult, painful needs that are always ignored.
4. For the record, I know my ex to know that she never shows up for one on one conversations. She doesn't know how. She can only role play as part of scripted, transactional interactions. Often people seem to believe she's competent in unscripted situations. She's not. She falls apart and can barely speak.
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